PICK YOUR BATTLES™ | Kim Groshek
NORTHSTAR LEADERSHIP INSTITUTETHE ONE DECISION METHOD™
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A mother and her adult daughter sharing a warm, connected moment
NorthStar Leadership Institute presents · For mothers of adult daughters

PICK YOUR
BATTLES™

What to Say, When to Let Go, and How to Stay Close to Your Adult Daughter

Stop replaying conversations and wondering whether to speak up or stay quiet. Learn a calmer way to decide what matters—and protect the connection you value.

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Does this sound familiar?

You Love Her. But What Do You Say?

As your daughter builds her own adult life, your relationship changes. You want to support her without overstepping—and stay honest without turning every difference into a battle.

Should I say something or let it go?
Why does trying to help sometimes create distance?
Where does support end and control begin?
How can I stay close without losing my peace?

You don't need to change your daughter. You need a clearer way to choose your next step.

Your three-hour working session

One Real Situation. One Clear Next Step.

Bring a real situation with your adult daughter. You’ll work through it using a simple, practical decision process.

01

See Clearly

Separate facts from assumptions and recognize what is triggering your reaction.

02

Pick Your Battle

Decide what is yours to address and what to release using five paths: Speak, Pause, Change My Approach, Accept, or Release.

03

Speak Wisely

Draft one calm sentence, boundary, or invitation that respects both your peace and her independence.

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What you'll take home

More Clarity. Less Second-Guessing.

A framework for choosing when to speak and when to let go
Words for one difficult conversation or boundary
A calmer way to respond without controlling the outcome
Lifetime access to the workshop recording

Small group · Live coaching and practical feedback · Mothers of adult daughters only

Kim Groshek
Meet your guide

Kim Groshek

Kim is the founder of NorthStar Leadership Institute and creator of The One Decision Method™. She brings decades of experience helping people navigate decisions and communicate with greater clarity.

This workshop applies that approach to a deeply meaningful relationship: the one between a mother and her adult daughter.

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You Can Love Her Deeply
and Still Let Her Choose.

The next PICK YOUR BATTLES™ workshop date is TBD. Please reach out if you are interested in joining a future three-hour live session.

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Date and registration details will be shared when the next workshop is scheduled.

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